Living with ADD/ADHD can have it's benefits, but also downsides. I wasn't diagnosed until I was an adult, but had the same issues/gifts as a kid, but was never brought up. I didn't want to, because I thought only weird kids had it, but also didn't like the idea of being medicated. Honestly, I think the popular/social/jocks types are more likely to be ADD than those "weird kids". Well I'm afraid that stigma has stuck in the head of the folks now being diagnosed "Adult ADD/ADHD" and aren't comfortable enough to open up socially or even with close friends about whatever is going on.