Hey, ladies! Repeating that pick-proof locks are Medico (expensive but so is your stuff), use a VPN service when you don't want someone to find you by your IP address (look up yours) and you can use Anonymouse to send emails you don't want traced. Just don't hit "reply" unless you know for certain your IP address won't show. Also, watch out for the trap of ex's claiming your meds make you unstable. Ambien is most popular. If your lawyer is clueless, find!